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YadaYada
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I have a serious one. If you are married, then why want another person?
ahhh not so easy to answer
... I for one am happy with just the one I have...But if he like an added gift on his birthday and such then that's ok with me ...I know where his heart is Two faggots worth I believe.
Feeling safe enough to be open with one's thoughts and feelings and trusting that the other person is doing the same.
Hair or no hair on chest. Which do you prefer?
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You should do whatever you like with your own body. If shaving is your thing then you should do that. If not then that's cool too. I think you should do whatever you want and not let society's view on what's socially acceptable distract you from what you really want to do with your own body. Same thing with partners. Hair is just hair.
Sorry should've specified. Your preference.
I should have added "I don't have an opinion do what makes you happy" I meant to say that in my original post but then got distracted by shiny things! Oops!
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Calazviel
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Dear Ladies of FCN
Do you feel that sometimes that guys online place you on a pedestal and that can then interefere in the way they subsequently interact with you?
Do you feel that sometimes that guys online place you on a pedestal and that can then interefere in the way they subsequently interact with you?
Yes because I take good photos. People interact with me all interested in me because they think I'm attractive, but it's very shallow. A lot of people have no interest to get to know me beyond sexually, or they focus on my looks too much. It happens on a lot of places not just this one. For a while when I had an active dating profile I had a clause in my profile that said "don't comment on my looks in your opening message" and it weeded out a lot of potential messages because many people focused way too much on my images/looks and didn't bother to read anything else about me. They ignored the clause and opened with "wow ur hot" and it's frustrating to deal with people who don't read your profile. I appreciate the comments/compliments I get, but it's very tiring. I'd rather be complimented on things that matter like my interests or how funny I am or something that actually is personal to me and not my looks.
Just what Busty said. Its a fact that males are more interested in looks first before anything else. Its the first thing said to me is about my looks. While its nice to be complimented men need to be able to actually hold a conversation. Not just throwing compliments.
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Jinxy
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Have to agree with the other ladies comments on this one. I have much more going for me then a well positioned, good lighting photo but most wont ever know that. But then maybe a lot aren’t interested in that anyway.
Nah, men think I'm a dick online as well as offline.
Sure. But I do the same. When someone catches my interest...up they go into my collection on the top shelf
I get bored very very very easily. And it is no skin off my back if someone is boring.
I think anyone/everyone...some people (?) here pursues the kind of interactions they are interested in. We can't all be the same.
<personal preference> Naturally hairless. and ticklish.
and pierced...and maybe tattooed if I can really get specific.
With freckles. (or a third nipple)But attraction has a funny way of showing up in all shapes and sorts unexpectedly. So it's not like body hair is likely to be a big game changer.
What do you wish people would stop asking you?
Are you more inclined to be attracted to people similar to you? Or opposite?
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Thalassa
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Similar to me. I'm vain like that.
"Hey Thom it's been a while we've seen eachother. So how is you brother doing?"
1. Where are you from? <upon hearing an answer> "No like ... WHERE are you from?"
2. Where is my...? I am not your finder!
3. any question involving the word "really"...if you didn't believe me the first time is asking again with the qualifier likely to change that...
