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Slopps said:
Let's try some positivity:rolleyes:
What is an instant "turn on" on FCN?

Ps: I am aware that likely doesn't exist, so let's rephrase into:
"what do you appreciate especially and specifically from men here?"
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Oh for me it’s being sent dic pics. I don’t want witty conversation or feelings ... it’s totally about the dic.





* I don’t really want dic pics
 
Slopps said:
As several threads got deleted (and the previous trainwrecked anyways) let's try a proper restart. I'll even start with an open question to all tbe lovely women around here:

Have you ever pm'ed a man here first (and not just replied) and what "made" you do so?


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Please quote the question you are answering to improve the readability... Plus the person who asked gets a helpful notification!
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I inboxed @Dcdevon first... best thing i ever did
 
Hotcarter76 said:
Why did you join FCN?
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Everyone is in it for something, as is the case always. A lot of people are in stasis here. Looking for validation, comfort, friendship, answers. Mourning feelings lost, people who've left or who they no longer recognize. People with whom their relationships are no longer what they used to be, and relationships that may or may not be salvageable. Escaping. Putting aside unhappiness, dissatisfaction and putting on a happy face.

This becomes a little bit like home. A new home. With new friends. New experiences to be had, new things to learn about. A medium through which we can work through feelings of confusion, hurt, anger, pain, whatever it is, with strangers, some of whom eventually become our friends. Free therapy with cool people. For some others, a place to observe, come and go without much attachment.

I joined to have a place to make stupid sexual innuendoes, which were plentiful to the point that I had to keep them to myself and laugh at them in my own head. I joined to have a place to read about sex, about other people's experiences, to learn. The internet has the same shite laid out in different ways, info that is all funneled to present more or less the same advice. This site has people talking about their personal experiences. People with all kinds of kinks and fetishes. It is fucking fascinating! Also, I never knew boobs, pussies and penises had so much variance. Porn only shows you the content most fappable to.

I later (very soon after, lol) realized I'd also joined because I was going through personal stuff, big stuff. Like, the kinda stuff that makes you start drinking vodka and tequila when you ain't even a boozer. FCN pretty much changed my life (no, this is not a paid advertisement). By purging heavy emotions and writing freely and liberating so much of my angst on forums, by listening to other people's stories and talking to friends, I worked through emotions and also through latent thoughts I didn't know I had, and understood myself so much more. That's something this site also does. It helps you figure out aspects of yourself if you're willing to read, learn, observe and question things.

Anywayyyyyy, I write wayyyyy too much. So I better shattap here :)
 
LilithX said:
Personality, originality....just being real. Seems like it’s not asking for much, but in a place like this...it’s refreshing when you see it.
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We don't need any skidude 2.0 here huh girl? Lol
 
Slopps said:
As several threads got deleted (and the previous trainwrecked anyways) let's try a proper restart. I'll even start with an open question to all tbe lovely women around here:

Have you ever pm'ed a man here first (and not just replied) and what "made" you do so?


Edit:
Please quote the question you are answering to improve the readability... Plus the person who asked gets a helpful notification!
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I have and it's rare but it's only ever been out of a strong curiosity to know more about them or something they've said that really resonates with me.
 
Jamespa44 said:
As a woman on fcn, what are some immediate turn offs from guys on here?
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Guys who suck up with all the compliments and/or are disgusting with their expectations or just don't vibe right with me or put no creative thought and effort into their introductions to me and then instantly crack the shits and turn on me when I send them an honest reply.

Players who think their shit doesn't stink and just recycle the same old lines to as many chics as possible.

Guys that expect too much way too soon.

Guys who hassle for nudes/pics and constantly badger me for them or think if they send me one I didn't even ask for let alone expect that I owe them something in return.

Guys who don't understand why it's so hard for me to trust even though I've explained my reasoning, yet they automatically think they're the exception!

Lack of tact.

Lack of imagination.

Lack of ability to have a decent conversation and turn my mind on first ...

Okay, I'll leave it at that, otherwise I'd be here for a while!!
 
Slopps said:
Let's try some positivity:rolleyes:
What is an instant "turn on" on FCN?

Ps: I am aware that likely doesn't exist, so let's rephrase into:
"what do you appreciate especially and specifically from men here?"
Click to expand...

A creative imagination that can excite mine, someone who is pretty left of centre and far from normal, a humourous cheeky side with good banter, big naughty ideas, a way with words, wit and intelligence. Oh and someone who has a profile pic - no matter how much they want to show ... I just get wary of no pic!
 
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Slopps said:
Let's try some positivity:rolleyes:
What is an instant "turn on" on FCN?

Ps: I am aware that likely doesn't exist, so let's rephrase into:
"what do you appreciate especially and specifically from men here?"
Click to expand...
Quick witted, humor, forethought, banter. And specifically when men use their intellect (as opposed to their body) to attract me, I'm more likely to stick around :)
 
Thalassa said:
Everyone is in it for something, as is the case always. A lot of people are in stasis here. Looking for validation, comfort, friendship, answers. Mourning feelings lost, people who've left or who they no longer recognize. People with whom their relationships are no longer what they used to be, and relationships that may or may not be salvageable. Escaping. Putting aside unhappiness, dissatisfaction and putting on a happy face.

This becomes a little bit like home. A new home. With new friends. New experiences to be had, new things to learn about. A medium through which we can work through feelings of confusion, hurt, anger, pain, whatever it is, with strangers, some of whom eventually become our friends. Free therapy with cool people. For some others, a place to observe, come and go without much attachment.

I joined to have a place to make stupid sexual innuendoes, which were plentiful to the point that I had to keep them to myself and laugh at them in my own head. I joined to have a place to read about sex, about other people's experiences, to learn. The internet has the same shite laid out in different ways, info that is all funneled to present more or less the same advice. This site has people talking about their personal experiences. People with all kinds of kinks and fetishes. It is fucking fascinating! Also, I never knew boobs, pussies and penises had so much variance. Porn only shows you the content most fappable to.

I later (very soon after, lol) realized I'd also joined because I was going through personal stuff, big stuff. Like, the kinda stuff that makes you start drinking vodka and tequila when you ain't even a boozer. FCN pretty much changed my life (no, this is not a paid advertisement). By purging heavy emotions and writing freely and liberating so much of my angst on forums, by listening to other people's stories and talking to friends, I worked through emotions and also through latent thoughts I didn't know I had, and understood myself so much more. That's something this site also does. It helps you figure out aspects of yourself if you're willing to read, learn, observe and question things.

Anywayyyyyy, I write wayyyyy too much. So I better shattap here :)
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I appreciate this so much.
 
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