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would you say you cry easily?
I cry happy tears much more easily than tears of sadness.
are you open with your feelings or do you tend to keep things to yourself, mostly?
Depends on the topic. I speak my mind when need be. I know the importance of open communication, so I’m not afraid to talk openly within relationships. But, if I’m dealing with something private, I don’t openly talk with just anyone about the issue at hand.
The best sex you ever had. Were you single or in a relationship?
Definitely in a relationship! Feelings and closeness are key to being comfortable and reaching delicious passion in my experience.
 
Kindaweird as a question :p

You're generalizing. Some women may consider the men they are with to simply be there to satisfy them, and vice versa btw. But I daresay the majority of women care and pay attention to what their man and other people, whichever the gender and whichever the relationship type, say.
Thats actually a well thought out answer for a only kinda serious question
 
So do you actually care what guys say or are we just instruments to your desires? Lol
I care what anyone and everyone has to say if they matter to me. As much as I would appreciate and expect a guy I'm close with to care what I have to say, I give him the same kind of care to what he says in return!
 
I'll ask this here as well, because I'm also interested in women's thoughts about this.

When it comes to sharing with your significant other, when it comes to trusting, how much is too much? Is there a 'too much'? When does sharing become oversharing? When does it become detrimental instead of beneficial?
 
I'll ask this here as well, because I'm also interested in women's thoughts about this.

When it comes to sharing with your significant other, when it comes to trusting, how much is too much? Is there a 'too much'? When does sharing become oversharing? When does it become detrimental instead of beneficial?

For me everything is too much, if it's not the right person, but there have been times when I've let go of that notion and shared to my heart's content. It actually feels good to be able to trust someone so much so and be in that comfort zone that no matter what you share, it's not going to push that person away, it makes you feel safe. I don't think anything is too much in that case.
I think when the trust is gone, from my personal experience, sharing starts feeling like oversharing. Everything you say is under scrutiny and twisted in a way you never thought was possible. That is when it becomes detrimental too. That and when the relationship is ending and you're pouring your heart out, hoping it'd change things when everything is already done and dusted, then you come across as desperate or needy, trying to prey on the last string of emotional attachment.
I also think when you're hurting, anything you share is oversharing and detrimental because there are things that you say that seals the deal, more often than not, to ruin things further.
 
What is a moment in your life you would love to relive again? And why?
There's a lot of moments that I want to relive but the one I would love to relive are the past few months.
It's where I felt the safest and was at my happiest, I was myself. Indeed I stopped talking with a lot of people , both real life and virtual, but I think I needed that. I discovered a facet of myself that I didn't think I was capable of having or it co-existing with all the other facets of mine (No, it doesn't meant playing with myself). One of those few moments where I genuinely wanted to hit rewind button.
 
I'll ask this here as well, because I'm also interested in women's thoughts about this.

When it comes to sharing with your significant other, when it comes to trusting, how much is too much? Is there a 'too much'? When does sharing become oversharing? When does it become detrimental instead of beneficial?

I assume by “sharing” you mean opening up? I think you can overshare early on. But once you reach the place that it’s safe, it’s important to feel that you’re able to share anything. HOWEVERRRRR....I’m a big believer in space. Each person should be free to have certain things that are their own. Whether that means something simple like not telling about your crazy party days in college, or the fact that you used to post nude photos online, or how many people you’ve slept with. Maybe it’s something like using the bathroom or farting in front of them. It’s good to feel comfortable doing so....but why not keep less than sexy moments like that to yourself? It’s definitely healthy to have a few secrets in life. But what’s important is knowing you are free and safe to share anything.
 
Have you ever been judged for your sexuality ("slut shamed")?
Online or irl? By men or other women?
 

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