I personally have specifically posted trans porn in that room just to piss off the TERFs and then given notice that it is absolutely allowed, and then banned anyone who tried to report me for doing it. I have banned people for calling trans women "it", LET ALONE any widely recognized, more explicit slurs. Don't try to tell me what I believe or care about. Don't try to tell me that I haven't tried. You don't know shit.
And Facebook? Fuck Facebook. I've got a few dozen trans friends who have been post-blocked for using slurs self-referentially. Don't act like FACEBOOK is doing it right when they don't give one fuck about context, and to top it off, require disclosure of one's trans status if some random person should report that one's name is "fake."
As for your reports and complaints, I've never seen them. The mods I know who WOULD investigate and punish such things, especially if they happened as plainly and publicly as you have stated, must not have seen them either. I guess these reports can't really have been so countless, after all. Also, you're talking about a large, rotating group of volunteers who all have different personal stances on things, some of whom I know for a fact are the *ahem* "wokest of baes", and saying they're all explicitly transphobic shitlers. But the only two you've named are botodd, who hasn't been a mod at FCN in quite some time, and SexyAsianBitch, who... well let's step back a moment:
I suspect you've never submitted any kind of ban appeal either, because this issue has literally never been escalated to me. Mods have asked me in the past about what we're supposed to do with men in lesbianchat, several times, over a very long time, and I have told them that they can only room-ban people who explicitly *say* that they are men. When that was apparently JUST TOO COMPLICATED for a few mods, and most of the users, our sysadmin actually got so fed up with it that he flipped his shit and changed the topic in that room to something like "men, women, and vulcans welcome!" -- which I thought was a bit trans dismissive, like those "we don't care just wash your hands" bathroom signs, but hey, here we have a room full of drama queens, half of whom are actually just cis men anyway, CONSTANTLY flooding the system with bullshit reports like "halp it am an mans in a girl rome!", drowning out reports that were actually actionable and related to serious offenses.
So you know what I did? I told the mods that the policy would be: If they REALLY want to keep men out of that room, they can ban people who explicitly say they are men, but they are under NO pressure to be in that room in the first place. Because it is a goddamn shithole. But my latest attempt at making it less shitty was to link this (which I wrote) in the topic in that room:
https://www.freechatnow.com/blog/gender-lesbian-chat
But I digress -- obviously you have never submitted any ban appeals, because this would have just re-awakened that question that the mods used to constantly ask me about gender in that room, and SexyAsianBitch has no power to delete forum threads (also, I just double checked the ban appeals forum). So, it's either that, or your ban appeals have been of the same quality as this thread, where you just rage and accuse my mods of all being shit, and got your threads closed because you were trying to extract your justice from people who weren't even involved. Sound about right?