*Lilly's Random Questions*

[J0DIE]

I met my ex last year when I was 30, he is 49

 

[JudithJ1337]

4 years only… I’m not that exciting

What are you talking about? My man's almost 4 years older than me. I don't think that's not exciting.

 

[Nillsons]

What's something the opposite sex has said to you, that's not sexual in nature, that instantly made you want to fuck them?

Hi

 

[Nillsons]

What's the biggest age gap of a relationship/fwb or even a one night stand you've had?

ONS - I was 25 she was at least 50...so 25 yrs at least

 

[Nillsons]

What is the least amount of sleep you've ever had and went all day without a nap? I feel like I need a more exciting question lol but here we are.

Me: 1.5 hours.

I worked for 48 hrs straight once. I didn't sleep but was having vivid dreams while sitting down, strange

 

[Nillsons]

Do you have a nickname? Is there a meaning behind it? Do you like it?

Twig, in high school. 5'11" 125 lbs at graduation and much skinnier when I was given the moniker. A picture is worth 2 words here -skinny dude
Ignore Bernie, he never knew how to dress at the beach
I HATED it in high school and most people didn't even know my real name! I like it now

 

[Nillsons]

How do you let others know you care about them?

Ah, The 5 Love Languages -great book btw
Mine is Acts of Service. I love to cook for you, wash your clothes, iron em, mow your grass, paint your house, etc. My second one is physical touch, probably equal to Acts of Service. But AoS can be shown to more people.

 

[Nillsons]

Well I severely neglected this thread

New question! What is something about yourself that you are proud of? Could be something you've done, or just something about yourself.

Raising my 2 kids, now 31 and 33, and having their respect and love.

 

[Nillsons]

Is there a song that captures you, someone you know, or a moment in your life perfectly? What is it?

I absolutely LOVE this thread! Song! songssssssss. so many. EVERYTHING that means anything to me more than likely has a song attached to it.
My daughter is my Brown Eyed Girl by Van Morrison
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[Nillsons]

What is the best gift you have ever received?

My son

 

[Nillsons]

What's your worst first date story? I'll share mine soon because it was very recently updated

I had just divorced after 18 yrs of marriage in 2005 and online dating was the rage. I met a woman on the local dating site. She did not have a picture but I am not really caught up too much in looks and we chatted a bunch, she seemed nice so we agreed to meet for dinner. About an hour before our date she called and said she wanted to tell me something about herself and proceeded to tell me about her weight loss surgery. I said no problem, lets meet and go from there. She was at least 300lbs but that wasn't the big turn off. From the moment we sat down all she did was complain about everything. EVERYTHING. Restaurant, wait staff, her kids, parents, ex. She even started to complain that I was too skinny and way too "sweet" , her exact words. Too sweet. I couldn't wait for it to be over. She only ordered a salad so I thought I was getting off cheap but after it was brought to the table she asked me if she could ordered something to go for later and before I could answer proceeded to order steak and lobster to go. and cheesecake.
2nd worst wasn't a date because before we met she texted and told me where to call and pre pay for her nails, hair, and instead of flowers bring a big bag of some expensive dogfood. I never replied. I'm not THAT sweet.
EDIT-I forgot! I was telling that story about the chick wanting me to pay for her nails, hair and the guy I was telling said he fell for it, dated her, and she got about 6000$ from him for all kinds of stuff - car tires, jewelry etc in about 2 weeks! then dumped him. Now THAT'S too sweet.

 

[Busty_Nerd]

What is the least amount of sleep you've ever had and went all day without a nap? I feel like I need a more exciting question lol but here we are.

Me: 1.5 hours.

Not sleeping for 3 days, I don't nap

What's the biggest age gap of a relationship/fwb or even a one night stand you've had?

He was 70, and i'm bad at math dunno how big of a gap that is.

 

[JudithJ1337]

What was the last thing you bought, for yourself or someone else, that you were really excited about?

Either the butt plugs and vibrator OR the air frier OR the wafflemaker

One of the three.

 

[JudithJ1337]

What's your favorite physical trait as well as personality trait/habit of your (future/present/past) SO?

My bush for physical trait and I'd say my laugh for habit. I'm usually the first person to start laughing at something and the last one to stop.

 

[Hervy]

Now I feel I missed out that thread. Really interesting. Genuinely.

 

[JudithJ1337]

Favorite season? Why?

Winter because it's the prettiest, second is Fall because of the feeling of the air and the smells and the flavors, Spring because cool breezes and wildflower honey. FUCK Summer because it's hot as FUCK!!! I can't take off anymore layers when I'm already naked.

 

[JudithJ1337]

Have you ever worried about something a lot then it ended up not being a big deal at all?

That was high school.

 

[JudithJ1337]

What do you like about yourself the most?

I like my creativity. Not just in artsy stuff, but in stuff like wordplay and interior design, shit like that.

 

[JudithJ1337]

A question for each of the 2 different types of people: those who own a sex toy and those who do not...

If you do, has anyone ever found them?

If you don't, whhhhyyyyyyyy not? Lol

Welp! I own one now! I haven't had them long enough for them to have been found by people.

As for why it took me so long to get one, A) I'm indecisive, B) I love just using my fingers.

 

[JudithJ1337]

When did you take yourself too seriously?

When I told myself I was saving my first time til I was married. That didn't go as planned.