Depends on the person.....
Thoughts Post your little thoughts.
I feel that way sometimes tooThen yeah, maybe it is me.
Happy International Women's Day!
A healthy friendship doesn't need daily communication... it just needs respect, trust acceptance and the knowledge that someone is there..... and sometimes boobs ... I mean boobs is life
Criticism welcomed
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I LOVE not having a car payment.
Okay, so, I want to get everyone who posts a dick in chat that's over 8" this shirt.
I feel like I'm floating in a marsh
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brunette_
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People make my head hurt and every day I'm one step closer to becoming a crazy cat lady.
That is all.
That is all.
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LillyK
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Lol @ big dick energy
I have strong opinions ... but fun fact it does not mean they are the only ones or the correct ones ..
It's good to have opinions but remember it's not necessarily right and you should always be open to more opinions from others and where possible or necessary be open to adjust your opinion should it be necessary. Nothing will happen to you if you alter or changes your opinion by listen to others opinion.
It's good to have opinions but remember it's not necessarily right and you should always be open to more opinions from others and where possible or necessary be open to adjust your opinion should it be necessary. Nothing will happen to you if you alter or changes your opinion by listen to others opinion.
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Does it need to be said?
Does it need to be said by me?
Does it need to be said by me right now?
>>>>Brilliant questions to ask before speaking. I am to impulsive to use this
Does it need to be said by me?
Does it need to be said by me right now?
>>>>Brilliant questions to ask before speaking. I am to impulsive to use this
My dreams... ♡
...never matched reality.
Who cares? At least I can burp my name.
...never matched reality.
Who cares? At least I can burp my name.
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Peony8317
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Arrogance is such a turn off...ugh
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brunette_
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I have anxiety and bpd, I'm by no means an easy person to get along with and it takes a certain kind of person to truly "get" me.
I thought I found that person, it's a huge part of why I even left fcn for a long time. He was uplifting, supportive, understanding and just got me. I was happy for a long time.
But something happened and he started using everything against me, using my anxiety against me, my bpd triggers against me... trying to make me feel crazy and just making me feel like a really awful person for just having feelings.
I never did anything awful, but in the end was made to feel like some kind of awful monster for having feelings, sure maybe stronger than the average person and sure sometimes they didn't make sense, but still.
All I ever wanted was someone to just be there and say "you're okay" or "it's okay", that's it.
I tried to talk to him about everything and it ended so poorly, just more guilt trips and more "everything is your fault".
Needless to say, now we don't talk anymore and the point to my whole rant (and not so little thought) here is, even the most seemingly genuine people can turn ugly and toxic on you for no valid reason. It's incredibly painful and makes you not want to talk to or trust...anyone.
Not a great feeling and it's real hard to move on from.
I thought I found that person, it's a huge part of why I even left fcn for a long time. He was uplifting, supportive, understanding and just got me. I was happy for a long time.
But something happened and he started using everything against me, using my anxiety against me, my bpd triggers against me... trying to make me feel crazy and just making me feel like a really awful person for just having feelings.
I never did anything awful, but in the end was made to feel like some kind of awful monster for having feelings, sure maybe stronger than the average person and sure sometimes they didn't make sense, but still.
All I ever wanted was someone to just be there and say "you're okay" or "it's okay", that's it.
I tried to talk to him about everything and it ended so poorly, just more guilt trips and more "everything is your fault".
Needless to say, now we don't talk anymore and the point to my whole rant (and not so little thought) here is, even the most seemingly genuine people can turn ugly and toxic on you for no valid reason. It's incredibly painful and makes you not want to talk to or trust...anyone.
Not a great feeling and it's real hard to move on from.
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If something feels right, don't give up on it. The unexpected and unknown is quite a scary place to go and it's not always easy, but what if it's worth it? You could be passing up the opportunity of a lifetime by holding back. Sometimes we as humans just have to take chances in order to find what we didn't even know we were missing. You may find a new job. You may find love. You may just find your own form of happiness, however that may be. Just don't give up. If you get knocked down, stand right back up and keep fighting. If someone tells you that you can't, prove them wrong. If it's meant to be, it's going to happen as long as you're willing to let it.
I got a compliment the other day from someone reputable in the welding industry. I played it off and said yeah I’d like to think I am above average. His response was you are in the top 10% what I have can’t be taught.
it hit home to me that when you do something day in and day out you really don’t realize how good you are at something.
it hit home to me that when you do something day in and day out you really don’t realize how good you are at something.
