...then I accidentally hit send instead of the PM tab, causing my half composed reply to appear in the main chat. Well, in the space of 10 seconds, I must of had 20 PM's arrive of the 'wanna see my dik' and others of a similar nature. Ok, the site is promoted as a 'sex site' so I don't blame them for trying. But that's the thing with 'trying', you may succeed, you may not (In my case, failure is an option) and the 'Thanks, but no thanks' I replied with, in 95% of cases got me an insulting response....
Pretty surprised & aghast by the high percentage of people reacting with bitterness upon being declined politely - never knew before it can come to that bad. I can now understand some ladies' negative hyper-reaction to dick pics.
...I don't seek people out and call them a lazy dumbass... that would be rude.
Same here. I have no intentions whatsoever to initiate rudeness (though I have at times unintentionally). I only reciprocate to it.
But at the same time, I admit I do have some pent up frustrations/anger with the world, which I 'enjoy' unleashing upon the next person who initiates rudeness with me (which may also explain why I reciprocate to rudeness sometimes with manifolds the intensity...not proud of that, but I happily admit my shortcomings if indeed guilty). Forgive me if I'm wrong, but my hunch is guessing you do have this streak in you as well perhaps?
(but I only get a good kick out of counter-lambasting people to a pulp in more elaborate substantial arguments in e.g. scientific/political/gaming etc forums...I only come to FCN purely for cyber-sexual release, since my observations and common sense have revealed that cybersex is probably the only thing that you can hope out of this site in most instances).
...I wouldn't mind chatting more if those who strike up a conversation would put a little bit of effort into it. The hi, hey, wassup, wanna chat...
Those intros are used by many people: indeed many are uncouth cretins as described earlier by Lakeside, but that itself does not automatically make everyone as 'lazy dumbasses', in defense of a different group of people.
Some people come here to kill time.
But many extremely busy men and women who don't have sweet time to kill, resort to this site (based on what is obvious from their observations) hoping for a quick online sexual gratification, and may explain the 'hasty shortened opener 'approach used by some (e.g.
hi, hey, wassup, wanna chat...but I'm not talking about the likes of the more crude "wanna fuck?" etc etc).
I'm not saying the lack of sweet time is a good excuse for being too short and direct (on 2nd thoughts, direct is good and not time wasting...at least you know right away who to ignore/diss off immediately), but being aware of this circumstance may help to understand why some not-stupid busy people may resort to 'short intros', on a social portal like FCN, where one's immediate impression of this place is exactly the opposite of 'elegance', 'etiquette' and the epitome of crudeness and full of creeps like myself.
Interestingly, if those who resort to mere "Hi", "wassup" are considered as lazy dumbasses, then I am clearly worse because I don't even bother to type anything at all -> I upload my dick pics in the main area, then go back to work...and once I hear a 'beep' of an incoming pm, I return to chat to engage the lady who has pm'ed me initiating sexual play right away. Call me an even lazier dumbass, but instead of wasting time looking at the main chat with lines of boring as fuck conversations speeding up too fast...I get some work done before straight jumping in to play with a consensual adult.
This reminded me of one funny occasion when an angry lady typed after exchanging the first few lines in pm:
"I'm a busy career woman having only next 15 minutes to cum and release.
Sorry if I find your opening pleasantries time-wasting...this is not matchfuckingdotcom ffs
Bye"
