Not quite honeyLike this???
...perhaps we should have a little anatomy lesson one of these days.
...perhaps we should have a little anatomy lesson one of these days.
there is an "or not" option?LOl Well that depends on weather I'm sexually frustrated or not
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Woodrow46
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I read back side...my badNot quite honey
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Sarah_56
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Yes, it is one of the nice things about a forum as opposed to chat - you can see varied responses and people can take their time.
a likely storyI read back side...my bad
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Woodrow46
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Color me mana likely story
lol Yeah lol But now a days the "Or not" times seems to be getting shorter and shorter lol
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSS lol Oh my lordy YESSS lol I love it!!!. The kissing and licking and nibbling and poking and the teasing
Oooh not to mention the sounds lol The sounds of love The sound of someone's hungry desperate moans mingling with yours The more I hear him enjoying his delights the wetter and sweeter and more desperate I am to spray right down into his opened thirsty waiting mouth . Pulling his hair or ears to make sure he looks at me as he gulps and drowns in The Sea of Me lol ..So yessss lol I love it
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Hubby_Home_Alone
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Did someone just describe heaven?YESSSSSSSSSSSSSS lol Oh my lordy YESSS lol I love it!!!. The kissing and licking and nibbling and poking and the teasing
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Colinpullin
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My goodnessYESSSSSSSSSSSSSS lol Oh my lordy YESSS lol I love it!!!. The kissing and licking and nibbling and poking and the teasing
Probably putting on my big headphones and listening to loud music or putting on a tv show/movie.
Going try to get this thread going again...
Ladies, is it important for you to orgasm when you play/have sex with your partner? Why or why not?
Ladies, is it important for you to orgasm when you play/have sex with your partner? Why or why not?
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Thalassa
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Not always, but in general, yes.
Because satisfying a partner's need to be pleasured until release demonstrates an awareness of that person's sexual need. It is a reflection of how much that person matters in their world, that they want them to be a full participant in those intimate moments, not just be someone used for their own solitary pleasure. It makes that partner feel acknowledged and cared for.
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Thalassa
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1. Probability. There are more women with self esteem, self worth and body issues than not. There are more men who are assholes and jerks than not. Therefore the occurrence of such relationships are greater than positive relationships which means we notice more of those. Sometimes women pick men who are like their dad who parented poorly, because that is what they've seen a relationship as being, that's all they know (if the other relationships surrounding them are such as well).
2. Assholes tend to be overly confident. A reasonable degree of confidence is considered attractive. That's a carryover from cavemen days where men who were successful in feeding their family and procreating were and had to be confident. The "overly confident" trait is however pure arrogance. It isn't always noticeable especially in men who know how to lie and manipulate as they'll balance out that arrogance with false gestures of kindness and caring. That's how some women get entrapped.
3. As I mentioned previously such men typically lie and manipulate, with false stories of their past and present events that aren't within view of those women, thereby creating a "reality" for the woman, who is trusting, and cannot separate lies from truths.
3. Shitty life circumstances. Life's ups and downs can cause women to make wrong decisions thay they otherwise would not make, and go for that wrong kind of guy.
Ergo, it's not all "fascination". There's a lot of predatory manipulation. There are also circumstances.
I get most of that and see it regularly in here. Sad and discouraging actually. Easier to be a dick, get off, move on. Safer actually. Lol
Everyone is in it for something, as is the case always. A lot of people are in stasis here. Looking for validation, comfort, friendship, answers. Mourning feelings lost, people who've left or who they no longer recognize. People with whom their relationships are no longer what they used to be, and relationships that may or may not be salvageable. Escaping. Putting aside unhappiness, dissatisfaction and putting on a happy face.
This becomes a little bit like home. A new home. With new friends. New experiences to be had, new things to learn about. A medium through which we can work through feelings of confusion, hurt, anger, pain, whatever it is, with strangers, some of whom eventually become our friends. Free therapy with cool people. For some others, a place to observe, come and go without much attachment.
I joined to have a place to make stupid sexual innuendoes, which were plentiful to the point that I had to keep them to myself and laugh at them in my own head. I joined to have a place to read about sex, about other people's experiences, to learn. The internet has the same shite laid out in different ways, info that is all funneled to present more or less the same advice. This site has people talking about their personal experiences. People with all kinds of kinks and fetishes. It is fucking fascinating! Also, I never knew boobs, pussies and penises had so much variance. Porn only shows you the content most fappable to.
I later (very soon after, lol) realized I'd also joined because I was going through personal stuff, big stuff. Like, the kinda stuff that makes you start drinking vodka and tequila when you ain't even a boozer. FCN pretty much changed my life (no, this is not a paid advertisement). By purging heavy emotions and writing freely and liberating so much of my angst on forums, by listening to other people's stories and talking to friends, I worked through emotions and also through latent thoughts I didn't know I had, and understood myself so much more. That's something this site also does. It helps you figure out aspects of yourself if you're willing to read, learn, observe and question things.
Anywayyyyyy, I write wayyyyy too much. So I better shattap here
This is so beautifully written - broad enough to cover almost everyone, while still stating some specifics - I am sure I do fall neatly under some of those categories described. Thank you for writing this and so many more very insightful posts.
Yup - I don't think there is any fascination factor at all. I'm not a woman, but I am guessing many in these circumstances are at the lowest and toughest points of their lives, and chose these category of males as a temporary distraction (just like some seek from alcohol and drugs), before they rise up and get their life together again. The long term problems are somewhat comparable to alcohol and drugs as well - some of these indulgences when gone really wrong, may have a sustained or permanent side effects.
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It's less about fascination and more about these men are master manipulators and prey on weaker people. They know how to neg and gaslight people into doing what they want. It's not because society is "fascinated" with them. I hate that generally men think women are attracted to assholes, I see this observation time and time again. Especially because lots of men will go "why are women attracted to assholes I could treat them so much better" It's much more complicated than that. They aren't attracted to assholes because they are assholes. These men tend to be much more confident, characteristic, down-to-earth people who can attract more women to them because they are putting up a false identity that isn't based on who they actually are. It's what they want you to see. I also think it's easy to keep falling for the same type of person if you're a person who has self-esteem issues or other related issues. Because you're easier to manipulate and people will keep taking advantage of your good nature and that's difficult to recognize your issues and have a reflection on why you keep falling for those people (I've been there)
Most of the time, yes. I want to get mine too. 've been with too many people who refused to reciprocate, and now I am bolder in getting mine now. But if i'm too tired or preoccupied (or whatever) I'm okay just pleasing my partner that one time.
Interestingly (and disappointingly) it does happen the other way round as well - I myself have been the victim of women manipulators in more than one occasion. They made use of my trust and compromised emotional strength (due to this thing I think we all call 'love'). Lesson learnt the hard way.
First off i'm sorry this happened to you. You're correct. I was just mostly commenting on this whole stereotype of "women prefer assholes" trope. Women can be just as abusive as men. Hopefully you're in a better position now.
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