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Chicken, boiled eggs, pasta, pickles, mayo and onion
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This? Ehh it's ok if I was making a chicken salad
Chicken, boiled eggs, pasta, pickles, mayo and onion
I do not at all!! However, I don't consider your responses as ramblings. You provide thoughtful and well written responses to the questions posed when called for. It is quite refreshing to read.
I am back again with three additional questions. I'll start out with a light question and end with one slightly more serious.
1. What is your favorite/go-to snack? I assume Cheetos, but one should never assume.
2. Are there certain people in the forums/chat rooms you avoid interaction with? Not looking for names of course, just wondering if there are those you avoid interaction with.
3. Was there a specific reason you first came to FCN? If you answered this previously no need to answer it again, just say so and I will try to find the answer.
Thanks again for answering!
Chips is my biggest weakness in the snack world!! Im not a chip snob, but jalapeno cheetos are my fav
Well there's a difference in avoiding people versus avoiding interaction.
I don't really avoid people per se. I can be quite blunt with trolls when need be. So I don't find most trolls a hazard situation.
If I were having personal issues with someone. Constant avoiding wouldn't be my route. I would either be quiet or will at least speak and be cordial for public sake.
Now with "interaction", I can be the type to avoid. But usually it's in situations where I am using it as a defense mechanism to be standoffish. (Not in a spiteful type of manner)
If I have a preexisting negative opinion of someone, or if they want to chat to me in a way that Im not interested. I will purposely deflect, avoid, or keep interaction to a minimum. (Gifting a "Hi" in return sorta thing)
But I do that because I know I have no interest in befriending..no sense in giving misleading friendliness or small talk, to make them think otherwise
And I've never really been the type to use block. But lately feeling it's a good option for forum. To avoid negativity.
Just to have someone to chat to/ meet.
I was recently single and having many sleepness nights with insomnia. We all know theres nothing to do at 1 a.m. besides some lame t.v.
So one night I got the idea to google chat rooms, found fcn. I came in as a guest into Adult chat. Tried to pm a few randoms for normal convo.
It wasn't a habit or routine for quite some time. I would just wander in on certain nights. Over about a month's time, I realized pm's were just a fail. (Due to constant cyber requests.)
Watching Main chat more closely, I decided maybe that was the best approach to have random chat with real people.
I registered, slowly began chatting on Main. After couple weeks made some aquaintances. That lead on to friends, it becoming more of a social routine as well..eventually moving to forums
Chips is my biggest weakness in the snack world!! Im not a chip snob, but jalapeno cheetos are my fav
Cheetos are damn good, no doubt! My go to snack is Extra Toasty Cheez-Itz. Freaking love those things. Have like a slightly toasted and salty taste!
Makes sense what you are saying. I will occasionally call out the trolls, but I obviously don't have to deal with as many as you do. There are certain people in the forums and the chat rooms I tend to avoid. I just don't interact with them because my Mom used to tell me "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything." Now I don't always adhere to her good advice, but I do my damn best to do so. Sometimes my propensity to say what is on my mind takes over and I just don't hold back. Those situations are rare, but it happens.
Just to have someone to chat to/ meet.
I was recently single and having many sleepness nights with insomnia. We all know theres nothing to do at 1 a.m. besides some lame t.v.
So one night I got the idea to google chat rooms, found fcn. I came in as a guest into Adult chat. Tried to pm a few randoms for normal convo.
It wasn't a habit or routine for quite some time. I would just wander in on certain nights. Over about a month's time, I realized pm's were just a fail. (Due to constant cyber requests.)
Watching Main chat more closely, I decided maybe that was the best approach to have random chat with real people.
I registered, slowly began chatting on Main. After couple weeks made some aquaintances. That lead on to friends, it becoming more of a social routine as well..eventually moving to forums
I can confirm late at night there isn't a DAMN thing on TV, unless one is lucky enough to find a decent movie on.
Insomnia is the worse. I have trouble sleeping sometimes because of very dry skin. I'll get up, try to watch TV, and sometimes find myself here when I wish I was sleeping, ha.
The chat rooms can be unmitigated disasters. These days all there seems to be is constant spamming of pictures, lame ass requests, and some rather disgusting ideas. Being a female in a chat room, damn, can't even imagine all of the requests for sex chat/cybering and really crude stuff you get sent. It's a wonder any female ventures into the chat rooms with the behavior of most males on chat sites.
I have found some really good friends by being in the chat rooms and talking to them. However, it is very few and far between. I have also made a few friends by interacting with people in the forums. I am somewhat relatively new to the forums, but enjoy posting here and really enjoy interacting with certain people.
Appreciate your detailed responses! : )
Hey, yall are giving me a chance to talk about new things that I never have the opportunity to chat about. So its refeshing to me. Other threads really don't have a place for some of these stories.
Im thinking we need a blog section!
Mhm. I've never been known to have a strong filter lol
Having some.backbone is good sometimes..but I can admire those who are collected enough to walk away. So must less baggage
I suppose my background plays a big part in it as well. Kinda grew up in a society where disrespect is a massive ordeal. Traditional Southern families are very stern sometimes. Dignity and reputation goes a long way in smaller towns. And bluntness isn't a trait thats missing lol
Aha, that feeling is all too familiar
The pervy stuff does get old. Lots of it you get use to. Open a pm, 3 second glance and exit.
There are those occasional meatheads who treat you like a harlot thats here for their entertainment purposes. Case in hand, last week someone was pervin me in whisper. I rejected and made a comment about his behavior. He responded to me by saying "yea well what do you expect in Adult chat"?
And I'm thinking to myself..what the hell are you expecting? Firstly it's called Adult chat. It's simply a room for adults. Not a porno groupie hangout. LOL
Anywho other behavior I sometimes ignore. Because I can be bantering or flirting with a friend on Main. Someone random takes that wrongly..makes a move
Im just silly and flirty by nature. But people who don't know me, don't know what my intentions here are. Or probably make assumptions.
So each situation is always different.
I think guys just approach this as a total sex site based on the ads and requests they see on Main.
But from my experience of so many women I've met here. Most are looking or are here, for reasons a tad bit deeper than that.
I always felt like it was easier to make aquaintances in forum. The bigger chat rooms are fast paced. Random pm's takes time to meet decent people. Chatting on Main can be the same.
Forums is just more laid back and has the versatility where new people can join in easily..and by watching posts can pick up quick cues of possible like-minded people.
The difference between the two is= forums has more of a community feel
Trying to transition into this with only a "show me your vagina" approach..really doesn't work
Gotta bring personality..
Something I've tried to explain on threads lately
Great explanations above, as always. I think you are spot on about having to bring personality to the forums. Going into the forums with "Hi bby wana fck" or "I hve big dck 4 u bby" just isn't going to cut it.
You are correct, many guys just approach this site as totally a sex site, based on my experience in the chat rooms. Some guys don't, of course, but probably the majority do.
More questions. : )
1. Do you have a bucket list and, if so, what is one thing you want to do on it within the next year?
2. What is your biggest turn off (either physically or personality wise)?
You are correct, many guys just approach this site as totally a sex site, based on my experience in the chat rooms. Some guys don't, of course, but probably the majority do.
More questions. : )
1. Do you have a bucket list and, if so, what is one thing you want to do on it within the next year?
2. What is your biggest turn off (either physically or personality wise)?
Im not a future planner *gasp*
I know it probably sounds lame..but I really don't have one. And I've never been the type to really set goals either. I think Im the type to see life as "nobody is promised tomorrow". So for me, trying to say "I'm going to do this next week". That isn't my approach.
I tackle things more as = an activity or responsiblity will be my intention, if all goes as planned. And of course if opportunities arise, try to cease the moment.
Personality? I really hate arrogance. The pompous attitude of self importance, and 'better than thou' vibe, really annoys me.
Makes me really have a critical eye when people treat others that way.
Physically, different things would turn me off. I guess the most obvious disconnect would be goth? The all dressed in black, dark aurora, heavily tatted and with piercings..that just wouldn't be something Im attracted to at all.
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Do you like traveling? Road trips, visiting different cities and countries when you are on holidays?
Traveling by car, yes. Im too sober to get on a plane
I've been lame last 2 Summers and havnt done a vaycay. But I dont do city life at all. Excluding vanilla trips to the ocean and such..but generally I like traveling home to the Appalachian mountains, renting a chalet in the Smokies, staying a few days at a lake house, camping/RV, riding quads, fishing, boat rides etc
That's my thing
That is my kind of trips
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Traveling by car, yes. Im too sober to get on a plane
I've been lame last 2 Summers and havnt done a vaycay. But I dont do city life at all. Excluding vanilla trips to the ocean and such..but generally I like traveling home to the Appalachian mountains, renting a chalet in the Smokies, staying a few days at a lake house, camping/RV, riding quads, fishing, boat rides etc
That's my thing
That is my kind of trips
Honestly it sounds like one of the best kind of trips. I don't know about riding quads or boat rides but fishing... The calmness it offers and that pleasure when and if you catch a fish, yes please
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What is your favorite color for clothes, cars, shoes, for the apartment that you live. Is it one specific or it changes depending on the above things?
Appreciate you responding again to my questions. I am a fairly curious person by nature, especially when someone expounds on the reasoning as to why within the question.
Me too! Arrogance has always been an instant turn off to me. The "I'm better than you and I can prove it" attitude some people have disgusts me. Self-confidence is great and can actually be a turn on to me, but if your arrogant and think you are the best thing walking this planet, damn, do I just have to go a different direction.
I also can't stand snobs. I've always figured this was because being snobby is closely aligned with being arrogant. Any person who acts like they are better than others because of intelligence, power, wealth, game, social status, etc. pisses me off. Always has and I imagine it always will.
Never personally been into the 'goth scene' myself. I don't think of it as a turn off per se, but along what you said the dark aurora doesn't really appeal to me.
You'll probably laugh, but physically I don't have a lot of turn offs. Typical male I know haha. Most of my turn offs are personality based. One physical turn off I can think of is someone who just refuses to take care of themselves and is able to do so (i.e., a person who doesn't bathe regularly, doesn't clean up regularly).
Thanks again for your responses!
Me too! Arrogance has always been an instant turn off to me. The "I'm better than you and I can prove it" attitude some people have disgusts me. Self-confidence is great and can actually be a turn on to me, but if your arrogant and think you are the best thing walking this planet, damn, do I just have to go a different direction.
I also can't stand snobs. I've always figured this was because being snobby is closely aligned with being arrogant. Any person who acts like they are better than others because of intelligence, power, wealth, game, social status, etc. pisses me off. Always has and I imagine it always will.
Never personally been into the 'goth scene' myself. I don't think of it as a turn off per se, but along what you said the dark aurora doesn't really appeal to me.
You'll probably laugh, but physically I don't have a lot of turn offs. Typical male I know haha. Most of my turn offs are personality based. One physical turn off I can think of is someone who just refuses to take care of themselves and is able to do so (i.e., a person who doesn't bathe regularly, doesn't clean up regularly).
Thanks again for your responses!
Weird, part of my response above got cut off ha. In regards to your response on the first question...
I don't think it is lame at all you don't have a bucket list. People thrive using different approaches. It seems like you live more in the moment and are spontaneous. I admire that in a person. I've always been a detailed planner and have things I would like to do/accomplish within a year, 5 years, etc. Been trying to be more spontaneous lately, but it's a work in progress. We all have our ways of making life work and whatever works best for you is always the best, right?
Also you are accurate in saying we aren't promised tomorrow. This hits close to me because of the sudden lose of relative extremely close to me a few years ago. While there is nothing wrong with future planning, none of us should assume we will be her tomorrow, next week, next year, and so on.
Life just isn't predictable in some cases. I don't think it's necessarily bad to look ahead in some regards. Going on a crazy shopping spree that breaks your wallet, knowing bills are due next week..yea thats silly
But in other ways we live in the "now" and form decison making and planning by that. It's doesn't always pan out. Things like education, occupation, location, marriage etc are always things we invest into for the future. (Which is normal.) But we never know what tomorrow will hold.
I don't think its good for people to become complacent and too comfortable with security. I know people irl who think their bank account is stacked, their mortgage is almost paid off, their marriage is decent. (All looks good for tomorrow)
But thats an assumption and act of faith to believe that.
In reality that spouse might cheat tomorrow, that house might be lost, your job might be taken from you.
Im not saying these things being pessimistic. Just more of a realist. Better to see it as= I hope our love lasts, I hope our home will stand, I hope if that rainy day comes this little money stacked away might help. Hope for the future
Not blind faith in things of life, that is out of our control.
There is that delicate balance of preparation tho. ill prepared people can suffer due to lacking some security blankets.
Even Nature can be a lesson unto us.
There's a proverb which says:
Go to the ant, thou sluggard; consider her ways, and be wise:
Which having no guide, overseer, or ruler,
Provideth her meat in the summer, and gathereth her food in the harvest
So yes, I think some planning is wise, mixed with embracing life in a spontaneous way as it comes. Day by day
Ohh I love color..downside of not being able to paint my townhouse.
Right now, I have mostly browns, black, red, green. Pretty basic and vanilla :/
Last 2 vehicles have been silver and blue
Most of my clothes are neutral. But I always find excuses to sneak in funky colors.
And Im rockin boring grey New Balance atm
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Ohh I love color..downside of not being able to paint my townhouse.
Right now, I have mostly browns, black, red, green. Pretty basic and vanilla :/
Last 2 vehicles have been silver and blue
Most of my clothes are neutral. But I always find excuses to sneak in funky colors.
And Im rockin boring grey New Balance atm
Thank you for answering. Don't know why but I was thinking that you might didn't like colorful clothes and preferred more black, blue, grey colors lol.
Also I'm not sure that green is so vanilla as you think, just saying.
You said "funky colors" so what do you think about fuchsia or purple?
Grey shoes and especially New Balance can't be called boring
For me, water is a calming effect. A place to hide away from the hustle and bustle of life. Actually hear quietness. Enjoy nature. Do some deep thinking
I love it.Downside is= I don't do the hard work with fishing. I only cast and reel
So I have to wait till someone offers to take me LOLRofl
My mamaw always use to say "they put their britches on, just like everyone else. One leg at a time"
I.e. you're human..be humble
Oh no, I am totally game for yellow, peach, orange, stripes, pink etc
But I do love my tee and hoodies also my jeans. Which tend to be neutral colors usually. Hence my neutral clothes. Yep! Id do purple or fuchsia!
Thats one of my sets with a lil red / green