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WomenRfromVenus said:
The real tricky part is, how much is true?
versus, just a version you have created based on how you comprehend me to be?

It's really deep when you think about it. Really deep
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Being here for aaaalmost 2.5 years I've seen and noticed things that made (later not the time that I witnessed them) understand what you are asking.
So my next question to you (if you get tired of them at any point say it and I'll stop) why would anyone act different here than in their real life? What the point of that and has it ever happened to you? To get to know someone better and at the end to figure out that they were "acting"
 
This thread is great, funny, and informative. It is awesome to see all the different questions, the responses, and the cool back and forth.

Speaking of questions...

1. May seem silly, but do you have a preference for what someone calls you when shortening your user name? Like 'Venus' or 'WomenR' or something totally different?

2. You mentioned above about how our mind sees/processes people we interact with here. How do you form your thoughts/opinions on people here? Is it based on what you see in the threads (what the person posts, how they generally treat people here, how they write, etc.)? Or is it based off your interaction with them? Perhaps a combination of the two?

Sorry my second question got a bit long winded!
 
lucky_luke said:
why would anyone act different here than in their real life? What the point of that and has it ever happened to you? To get to know someone better and at the end to figure out that they were "acting"
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I have learned by time, that alot of people are different 1on1 than how you just see them on Main chat in the rooms or public threads.

Most people use fcn as an opportunity to make humor, flirt, be mischievious and naughty.
But if you ever get past some of their barriers 1on1. You will realize things like= they are really intelligent, a softie on the inside, very relatable, caring etc
But they will never show that side in fcn public. You have to pull back layers and earn some trust to get there.
I don't really look at it as acting. It still takes a small part of that person's personality to be that type of flirty, snarky, witty etc
And with lots of people, their irl has no place for these shenanigans. So online is the chance to spew off insanity, giggle and log off
Cause that's what I do :p
Idt my fapping jokes would work so well irl...No? :D
 
PoliteandNaughty said:
1. May seem silly, but do you have a preference for what someone calls you when shortening your user name
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PheonixxxMonroe said:
I'm gonna call her "V" for Venus but also for vivacious, vixen, voracious, voluptuous AAAND Vajayjay!
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LOLOL
Everyone usually calls me Venus or V
On apps I just use Venus. But Im flexible with whichever someone uses. :D
 
PoliteandNaughty said:
How do you form your thoughts/opinions on people here? Is it based on what you see in the threads (what the person posts, how they generally treat people here, how they write, etc.)? Or is it based off your interaction with them?
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It is a combination of both. Im a very observant person.
I watch people's content in the rooms and forums. And over time I can gauge someone's behavior and lingo fairly easily.
People's mannerisms are sometimes unique to them alone.

I analyze and look at things like= how do they treat others, what is their possible motivation for being here, do they seem trustworthy, have they exposed things about others, are they toxic, backstabbing is a big thing I pay attention to, or do they seem to use people for selfish reasons. Also shallow.
The shallow thing will never work on me. It's not about kink shaming or judging why people are here.
But for me personally, if I never see anyone do stuff beyond tryin to hookup and perv. Their pm to me just gets ignored or it's very short and brisk.
Like Shania Twain's song, having nothing but good looks, great rp skills, flattery words..well that don't impress me much.
I want to see personality and fun convo or interaction

Now how I start to see someone 1on1 is totally different. As I said above, people tend to be different in private. I just try to feel people out over time. And see more of who the real them, is.
I make basic assumptions of their character, as we all do. And I've never been the type to pry and ask personal questions.
I just wait till people feel comfy with me. And start opening up about their life. We learn more by just being a listener.

After I start chatting to someone 1on1. How they treat others here is mildy important.
But I mostly go by how they treat me. How they not only treat me in private but public also. And of course how well I click with them as a friend, or conversationist.
 
WomenRfromVenus said:
Then when each one wanted naughty time, Id pretend I already made plans. Avoid them all
And eat cheetos and look at Pinterest? :D
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Or say that you have a migraine, that works also right? :eek:
I agree with cheetos but don't know about Pinterest. Are we... Erm erm look for anything funny or... :cool::D
 
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